Online Without Overwhelm
Six Month Mentorship
Are you a Healer, Coach or Therapist
who has been procrastinating on being more visible online?
or you’ve been doing the work for awhile but you feel like your driving with the brakes on and…
getting burned out?
Does this sound like you?
You are holding yourself back, procrastinating, or getting overwhelmed but you still find the time/energy to beat yourself up.
Or, you ARE doing the work to be more visible, but now you are burned out because it isn’t working the way you like.
It doesn’t always feel safe to be more visible online and you can’t always tell why.
You are brilliant with private clients and in person events. Now you want to translate that to shine more online.
“People say ‘Just be yourself’ as if it’s an easy thing to do?!?
As if I can just flip-a-switch and BAM, here I am! As if there isn’t years of familial & cultural stories (hidden beliefs) to unlearn to get to what is me.”
“Its a shame that ‘just be yourself’ is now a cliche. It hides the truth in plain sight and many give it only a passing nod.”
What you’ve tried that isn’t working …
Pushing and hustling. It feels fake. But you think you have to do better at “Putting yourself out there” so you swing between pushing and doing nothing. Ugh!
Taking on more than you can handle. Over giving and people-pleasing.
Holding back so no one calls you a fraud, or in case you offend someone.
If this has been you for some time now
It’s starting to suck the energy out of your Spiritual life.
You’ve heard of the “Impostor Complex” (syndrome?) and you’re pretty sure it has something to do with why you are holding back but you don’t know how to tackle it yet.
It is starting to hurt your heart to have so much to give, so much to say, but there is a block to speaking your truth and being more fully YOU out there in the world.
You came here for a reason. Right?
Why is it so hard to get your work out there?!?
If you are ready to:
Let go of the overwhelm.
Start feeling even more fully YOU in your online promotions.
Expand your online presence authentically and;
Grow and scale without burnout …
Need a bit more info and to make sure this is really a good fit for you? Keep on scrollin my friend!
Is this your story too?
I was talking with a client the other day about her goals to grow her Healing practice and she spilled the truth about how she really felt.
“I would kinda rather stay invisible, or just have someone else do it all for me. But I can’t afford that yet, and I know there are some hidden blocks or beliefs in me that need to be addressed first anyways.
I know that I need to put myself out there to achieve my goals. I feel so conflicted!”
Can you relate?
Maybe you fear that …
You will have to change who you are in order to show up more online?
You can’t handle that much visibility, attention, or possible criticism?
You will trigger the Impostor thoughts like “Who the hell do I think I am anyways?”
“What if I let everyone down?”
Or you …
Think “Oh I really need to get myself out there.” and then do nothing about it?
… post every day for ages, but can’t keep it up?
This can be so frustrating! You have a message to share, a great service to offer. You know you can get the words out brilliantly when you are WITH a real person, a client or a prospective client.
You are probably even a great public speaker.
So why can’t you just PROMOTE yourself online?
Why is it so different?
So far you’ve tried ...
Pushing yourself.
Or its nasty cousin, beating yourself up. Feeling bad. Trying to make yourself do it.
Social media classes or free challenges about what to do, what to post.
Working with some amazing healers or coaches to see what the blocks are, where you feel you don’t deserve success or what past life issues may be coming up.
You are probably a healer as well and you do great work to help YOUR clients get seen, or work with more clients. But working on yourself is tricky. It’s Hard to see your own blind spots.
WHY THE SOLUTIONS YOU’VE TRIED so far DIDN’T WORK fully
Here is why I think those approaches didn’t work, or only worked a bit:
When you “Push”, in a way that isn’t totally aligned with your heart, it only works for a short time - then you burn out.
Classes on “What to post” only apply to 5% of the journey. The other 95% is you learning to get back to being fully YOU. The How-to tools can’t address that.
Energy healing probably helped you have a greater awareness of yourself and your energy. It helped you get your feet on the ground, become aware of energy, or deepen your relationship with Spirit. But it didn’t hit the specific block, belief, or what I call “Self Lie’s” that you’ve been holding onto, the ones keeping you safe.
What I believe will work instead.
Strap in!
I believe the real reason all of those approaches didn’t hit the spot fully, is because there is something hidden, something you haven’t been able (Willing, or feeling safe enough) to see.
Take a deep breath and feel into this…
Ask yourself - what have you not been able to see? What is hidden? What IS it that’s holding you back?
Can you see it? Fully?
I believe that if you could see it, if you had the full sense of what it was, you wouldn’t be reading this page. Because you’d be out there doing your thing.
You KNOW something is going on. It just doesn’t add up that you can be this good at what you do, feel this deep knowing in your soul that you are on your true path, yet you can’t get your work out in the world in a way that feels aligned. *Yet
I believe you are blocked because there is an unconscious belief that hasn’t been fully seen and addressed yet. I’m not talking about the writ large “I must not feel like I deserve success” (although that may be part of it). No. I’m talking about a hidden belief (or beliefs) that are much more specific, more unique to you and how you navigate life.
These hidden beliefs have an agenda to keep you “safe” and unseen.
And maybe that was useful once.
But not now.
No. these hidden beliefs are no longer helpful - in fact they are more than unhelpful - they are a misdirect.
They have you looking one way when really what’s going on is something entirely different. In short
… they are a lie.
A lie trying to distract you from what is really going on.
Does that sound harsh?
That I’m saying that you are lying to yourself?
I have found that addressing these unconscious beliefs, these “Self Lie’s” head on, calling them what they are, is the most loving thing I can do with my clients.
If you were driving with the parking break on you’d want me to tell you, right? Well, often a “Self lie” is just as quick to see, then you get right back to driving.
Let me give you a quick but profound example.
A woman came to me to find out why she was holding back in marketing her work online. She was a Christian Intuitive and had an excellent, clear and compelling website.
Within 15 minutes we saw the energetic block. She said “People just don’t understand my work. Half of them get it, and the other half attack me personally. I feel like a Heretic. But, since I became this Heretic I feel closer to Jesus and to my faith than ever before.”
Bingo! She had developed a belief system she was now unconsciously trying to prove that she could be like Christ. To do that, she had to experience lots of people “Not understanding my work”, so that she could be the Heretic, so that she could be loving in the face of all those people attacking her … so that she could be like Jesus.
In this example the lie was something like “I want to have more clients” but REALLY, she wanted a chance to be more like Christ. We also later found out that she had fears about if she was really able to handle having a full client load, and if that would mean that she would have to sacrifice family time. This was another “lie uncovered” that would lead to a breakthrough.
The magic in this “Lie Detective” work is that you see those deep inconsistencies but without the heaviness or significance. It’s important. But its not a big deal. And then we clear it at it’s energetic core.
Would you like one more example?
Remember in the 90’s when they came out with “Magic Eye” books? You thought it was some random messy image and you couldn’t tell what was going on. But when you learned to relax your eyes, in that special way, you could see the hidden image.
That is exactly what I do with energy, your beliefs, and seeing those hidden lie’s.
We just poke around, adjust our eyes, and try to laugh as much as we can, until together we both see it and say “Oh my god is a Dolphin! Holly Crap! That is so cool!”
So what is really going on?
What is holding back from being more visible online? And what will we cover in these 6 months together?
I have found there are 3 main things holding back the amazing Healers, Coaches and Therapists that I work with.
They are:
The specific “Self Lies”, that are unique to you and your life experience.
These are what keep you headed south when you think your headed north. Hence that experience of “But I’m doing everything right!”
The 8 Pillars of Impostor Complex.
Procrastination, Overwhelm, The Inner Critic, Feeling like a fraud, Playing Small, Not owning your expertise, People pleasing + over giving and crappy boundaries.
The Helpers Paradox
This is at the core of what holds back every Healer, Coach and Therapist (also many artists and non-profit leaders) that I have ever worked with. Once you see how much this is EVERYWHERE in your life, you have the knowledge to move out of struggling and into thriving in your business.
In our work together I will help you learn
The source of 98% of procrastination in your business.
One practice that will shift overwhelm when it shows up.
The “Hidden Chest” approach to dealing with the Inner Critic.
The quality that makes Impostor Syndrome and Impostor Complex so different and how this helps you develop true confidence.
What “Playing Small” is really about and why you need it sometimes.
A powerful energetic process to shift “Playing Small” internally when it’s not serving you.
A practical tool to own your expertise that will also help you sign more clients.
The undercover lie that is making people pleasing, over giving and most forms of “Helping” a detriment to your business growth instead of a plus.
The truth about boundaries that will have you feeling energized and lighter than you have in years.
Ready to see what specific beliefs have been creating overwhelm and feeling inauthentic with your online visibility?
It’s time to have the Healing or Coaching practice that you dream of. It’s time to get to be ALL of you in your business.
Click here for the full details and to sign up.
Hi, I’m Wil.
I have worked with over 500 individual business owners across 27 countries since 2017. In that time I have honed a unique ability to “Find the lie”. My clients started calling me a “Human Polygraph”, sometimes smiling, often saying “oh boy, ok, I’m ready. Tell me straight!”
I have the Spiritual Gift of Claire-Audience. This means I can “Hear” when things are off. I don’t see Aura’s, but I do hear when you say something that you don’t fully believe.
That helps us start the hunt, and it ends when you and I both see where you have been out of alignemnet withg your deepest truth, where you’ve been lying to yourself and its been holding you back and causing stress.
With this ability, I have tracked all of the client sessions I’ve conducted and discovered that the Impostor Complex is the most common culprit at the heart of any lack of confidence for entrepreneurs looking to be more visible online and attract more clients. I also cataloged all my clients’ challenges and issues and found there are 8 distinct aspects to the Impostor Complex. In other words, if you’ve been working on your mindset for ages, and you still feel like a fraud, there is hope! There are 8 aspects in total that make up this “Impostor Complex.”
I call them the “8 Pillars of the Impostor Complex”
And there is one core Pillar that is at the root of almost every challenge I see for Healers, Coaches, and Therapists when it comes to expanding their online Visibility. It’s called “The Helpers Paradox” and it holds back countless well-meaning, highly skilled, intuitive, gifted healers every day from making the kind of impact they want to make.
So if you’ve got the skills, and you know you have a message to share, but you keep getting stuck, there is hope!
F.A.Q.
What if I’m new in my field or industry? Will this Membership be good if I’m new in business?
No. This is meant for Healers, Coaches and Therapists who have been at this for some time 3 years or10 years and are having pains to “Get online” or become more visible online.
For support on the earlier stages of business development and a chance to unpack the Impostor Complex and the ways you hold yourself back in the earlier stages of business, please check out my Monthly Mentorship group.
What if I’m “old hat” and I’ve been a public speaker for years, have no problem being in front of others or speaking my opinion, but I’ve just had some weird blocks about the online part. Will this program work for me?
Yes. This course is PERFECT for these kinds of people.
Will there be a weekly theme, weekly teachings? Or is this all based on specific beliefs that come up in the moment during sessions?
This is 50/50. I will have main themes, teachings and suggested homework. And we spend most of our time diving into your specific beliefs.
Is this course all about one social media platform? Do I have to be on FB for example?
The deep energy work and belief clearing work that we are doing applies to all social media, email marketing and online marketing you’ll be doing. However, the only platform I am familiar with personally is FB. So any of my tips and tricks would only apply to that.
Will I have to do homework like posting content as part of this membership?
You don’t have to, but it’s recommended. I will give some suggestions and prompts for you to use. This stirs up all the shitty beliefs you’ve been holding onto, the judgments you’ve been avoiding by not posting. That deeper stuff points to the “Lie’s” that we will clear in our sessions.
Is there another way I can participate if I don’t want to make actual posts at all? What if I’m not ready for that yet?
I totally understand this. Yes, you don’t have to post to get the benefits of the program. I have found it almost just as effective for you to imagine taking that action that scares you, making that post, and then see what your ego says to you about it. You can also “Visualize” yourself making the suggested post, and note the reactions you have to doing it. This will bring up the same “Crud” from your unconscious that we can clear the following class.
If I’m Christian, will this work conflict with my religious beliefs?
It might. Many of my clients are Christian, or have left the Church but still have a deep relationship with Christ. I personally have a very strong relationship with Jesus, but I do not identify as Christian and have not been Baptized.
So if you have a strong focus on Jesus, but are open about the details on how God shows up in different peoples lives, than this will still be a fit. If however you do not acknowledge healing modalities that do not reside in the Church, this likely won’t be the right fit for you.
Are you a Social Media Marketing expert? Do you know how to “Hack the algorithm” for best engagement?
No. Nope. Nada. Nope on a rope! I am a claire-audient belief clearing expert that can help you get to a place and inner peace and clarity. For the specific “Tactics of the day” i have people I can recommend. I have learned some small tricks here and there which I will share, but that is not the core of this course.
“I’m seeing things shift for me internally and externally. My phone is ringing, ringing, ringing, and I’m signing new clients.”
Those were the best clearing sessions I've ever had with you and it worked in perfect timing with my new course launching this week. Thanks for everything! Wil's work has helped me to uncover what was blocking my success in business and identify anything in the way. He helped give me the joy back in what I do and removed some of the dogma I had around women not being allowed to be powerful in their businesses.
Lauren
After working with Wil I got a nudge from the Universe to contact an online acquaintance and offer her free coaching as a beta test of my program. She said YES! Also I tend to worry all weekend about not doing anything on my biz. It’s become a 7 days/week mental grind for me and I haven’t been getting much done. This past weekend, without thinking about it, I chose not to feel guilty about not doing any work. I just handled personal stuff and had fun!
Heather, Survive to Thrive Coaching
Highly recommend working with Wil. I’m a regular client of his as he’s helped me to remove so many business and expansion blocks that (even after years and years of personal development work) I didn’t even know were there. During our first session I felt some powerful energy shifts, and lo and behold manifested a new client within one hour after meeting with him.
CEO and Founder Katie Titi LLC, Transform Your Environments, Transform Your Life (TM)
“Wil Carlos is masterful at facilitating the release of hidden beliefs that keep you playing small. If you are ready to live your best life, then Wil is the person to work with.”
“I just had a potential new client send me a FB message for a session!! Whoo-hoo!! AND...I’ve already followed up with her to set something up no hesitation or procrastination!! YAY!!”
“As of my last session with Wil, something has been released that I have carried for a long time. I was blocked and no matter what I did I could not release it. After our session, it was gone. The tightness, the limitation, has been released!
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This membership is for you to break free and shine online.
What you get when you join the Online without overwhelm Membership:
Bi-weekly private sessions with Wil:
We will use the “Truth Space” to identify exactly where you have been misaligned, or outright lying to yourself. We will clear the blocks to you fully being YOU in your business, your visibility and in Owning your expertise.
You also have the option for a 15 minute check in as needed in between sessions
You are on my mind, we are in this together, a little bit joined at the hip! This means that your issues are top of mind as I am creating my free content video’s, meditations, etc. This means I can be addressing your “Stuff” all week long at no extra cost. All anonymous of course.
This is about your energetic proximity to me and to the work. You are in a whole new energy bubble, where the shifts become even more magical, deep, joyful and fulfilling. Ease. That is the name of this game!
Live Group sessions
You will also have free access to the monthly mentorship group calls that happen the third Wednesday of each month.
Monthly Distance Clearing:
This part is cool!
You come up with an issue, general or specific, send it to me, and I will do a distance session for you on it without you needing to do anything.
That means you email me with something like “I just hate doing zoom workshops! Help”. And I will look into your energy field, and see what beliefs or energies come up to shift and clear … and you can just go drink a latte!
I will email you what comes up so you know what we worked on or cleared. This is a great way to access and shift patterns and things that may have been unconscious and we can bring them to the surface. It is also a great way for you to leverage my time and expertise while you are off doing other things.
During these 6 months you will have someone that see’s you, who is with you, on this often mysterious or confusing path. Someone that see’s your highest and best self, and relentlessly calls you on your Bullshit moments so that you fast track it through the scary parts!
This commitment also means that you are willing to be exposed, to have your favourite hiding spots uncovered by the light of day, the light of Divine Spirit.
You know if this is for you because you feel SO ready to have a deep, ease filled business and life. You’d like to fully embody the skills you need to be energetically aligned with; Self Love, Self Confidence, Business and Personal Visibility and above all OWNING your expertise and your power Monthly Investment - $400/month for a 6 month commitment to yourself.
The Real value for you:
Being in this process joins you to a powerful energetic bubble of fantastic, real growth. That is the weird and wacky part that I can’t put a price tag on that because its much more subjective, magical, and frankly, its up to Spirit! What you can expect to pay for this Inner Circle Membership in the future - $500 monthly Right now I am building our Founders Circle so I am making this available at $400. The price will go up to $500 … someday. I honesty haven’t decided when but I know that this is a more accurate representation of the value of this membership.
So … when Spirit lets me know to up the price again, I’ll let you know!
That means if you join now you will pay $400 per month for 6 months.