The Relationship Reset:

A Special 3-Session Intensive for Couples

 

$347 total (regularly $750) — Only 5 spots at this rate


Does this feel familiar?

You love each other. You know you’re good together. 
But lately…

  • The fights happen more often, and leave you feeling drained, not closer.

  • You keep circling back to the same issues, even when you promised yourselves you’d “do better.”

  • There’s a quiet distance that creeps in after arguments… a politeness that replaces the warmth you once felt.

You might tell yourself, “We just need to communicate better,” but something deeper is happening under the surface.


It’s Never About the Toilet Paper

I remember years ago in my relationship fighting with my wife about the toilet paper. You see, she chronically forgot to refill the toilet paper. And, as you can imagine, it was frustrating!

We got in fight’s over the toilet paper. Or, me not doing the dish’s each day. It seemed crucial that we figure out WHY I hadn’t done the dishes, or WHY she didn’t remember to refill the toilet paper roll.

Until one fateful day I realized “it’s not about the toilet paper!” So I asked my wife what else was going on. And it turned out she was mad about my general lack of presence in our life together. I was going through a rough patch and I was not showing up as a loving and present partner.

When I didn’t do the dishes, all that frustration came out. But it wasn’t about the dishes.

I believe every couple deserves to feel truly happy

I believe every couple deserves to feel truly happy, deeply connected, and fully satisfied in their relationship.

I help couples break free from negative patterns and create a foundation of safety, trust, intimacy. In my work with men, I guide them to stand strong with love, finding the balance between independence and connection, so they can bring their best selves to the relationship.


What is Relational Life Therapy (RLT)?

RLT is a proven approach that helps couples see the pattern they’re stuck in and exactly how to change it, fast.

In just three sessions, you and your partner will:

  • Get clear on your stuck pattern

  • We’ll identify “the Dance”. This is the cycle of conflict, withdrawal, or defensiveness that keeps replaying.

  • You’ll finally see why it happens and how you both unintentionally keep it going.

  • Learn how to stop it, together


In these three sessions you’ll each discover the exact moves that break the cycle and bring you back into connection. No more playing defense. You’ll both start creating safety and trust in the moments that matter most.


You will also learn your one core daily practice that makes the difference.

You’ll leave with the essential skill that turns reactivity into connection, so instead of repeating old wounds, you start building something new.


Why I work with couples.

I have been very blessed in my life with an amazing marriage to an amazing Woman. She makes it easy to love her … 90% of the time!

The other 10% of the time, I find it very helpful, necessary, to have the right skills and beliefs to stay connected and healthy in our relationship.

We still have our ups and downs.

However, because we took the time and effort to learn some skills early on in our relationship, we have been better equipped during our 14 year marriage to deal with the challenges that come.

Part of my work now is equipping couples with the skills to be healthy in their relationship, as well as helping them align spiritually so they can continue to grow together for a full and fulfilling life.




The RLT Relationship Reset – 3-Session Private Intensive

Why I’m Offering This Now

I’m currently completing my advanced certification in Relational Life Therapy.
 That means two things:

  1. I’m bringing the full power of RLT into my work, and I want to give a few couples the chance to experience it now.

  2. This special rate is only available while I’m in the final stages of my training. Once these 5 spots are filled, my regular rate of $750 will apply.

What You Get

  • 3 private 60-minute sessions via Zoom. (our first session often goes 90 minutes to allow for enough time. This is on a case by case basis as needed and at no extra charge.)

  • Option to continue at my regular rate only if it feels right for all of us

Who This Is For

  • Couples feeling stuck, reactive, or distant … but not ready to give up!

  • Individuals who want to understand and shift their role in a repeating pattern

  • Anyone curious about RLT and ready for a powerful relationship reset

This Is More Than “Better Communication”

Your relationship is living thing. It’s sacred and beautiful.
This work is about repairing the trust, intimacy, and joy that makes life together worth living.
It’s not about avoiding conflict. It’s about learning how to stand fully in love, even when things get hard.

If This Speaks to You…

This is a rare moment to get my full attention and care at a deeply reduced rate.

Only 5 couples will be accepted at this price.
When the spots are gone, they’re gone.

Book A 25 Minute Connection Call here

We’ll talk, see if this is right for you, and reserve your spot if it is. This conversation is an exploration to see if we connect, if we both feel this is a good fit.

Testimonial:

“My partner and I worked with Wil as our relationship coach for about 6 months and I feel very grateful for the gifts we received during that time. Having a third person to guide us was absolutely magical - especially while we’re dealing with chronic illness.

One of the most heart-opening moments was for me to receive Wil’s interpretation of our dynamic. Something he worded even more precisely over time. He would explain it to us in his words, rather than our own, which shed a new light on our dynamic for me. It helped us see our unhelpful patterns and step out of them more and more quickly.

I was very moved to witness how Wil was able to speak my partner’s language and really relate to his world (military). It helped my partner open up to him and trust him.

As for me, I’m quite a different breed in how I communicate! Wil always stayed relational with me and created a safe environment for me to voice what I needed. It allowed me to get back into connection with myself and him. The importance of this… I can’t even put into words.

One of the ways I tend to learn best, is through observation. I observed Wil, I listened closely to his words and to the stories he shared about his own relationship. This was very inspiring and grounding at the same time.

Wil, thank you for your support and guidance!”
- Anonymous

Disclaimer:

Will 3 sessions “Fix” your relationship? Very likely not. We will get a lot done in three sessions. This is a deep dive shift. However, real change takes time. I have found that 6 months is the average time for lasting change to happen.

Weather you follow up our 3 sessions with working privately with me, someone else, or your own self study courses with RLT (Relational Life Therapy), please know that I’m not promising a quick fix, or a magic pill. Changing and healing your relationship will take effort, time and passion.

These 3 sessions will be a Reset, a Kick in the pants, to get you back on the right path.