Half Day Workshop

Healing The Helper’s Paradox

I invite you to put aside people pleasing

so you can …

Plus , Increase your energy by developing naturally healthy boundaries.

This workshop is a no B.S. approach for Healers, Coaches and Therapists who want to have a sustainable business.

This is for those Healers who keep giving and giving, but their hearts, and bank accounts, are asking for more balance.

You are ready for some clarity, nourishment and freedom to be and express your truth, and yourself!, with ease.

But you are still dealing with …

• People pleasing

• Hiding your light “under a bushel”

• Over giving.

• And The Impostor Complex, that voice that says “Who do I think I am anyways?!?”

There is a very important reason all the great things you’ve done so far aren’t working fully.

Why?

It’s because you are missing a key ingredient. The first ingredient actually.

You have probably done steps 2,3,4 5,6,7, and 8.

But you missed what Is STEP 1 for Healers, Coaches and all the other “Helpers” of the world.

You are missing an understanding of …

The Helpers Paradox

The Helper’s Paradox says:

The NEED to help, destroys your ability to help.

Let me paint a picture for you, one that I often share with my clients.

Picture Jane, a woman on a mission to beat her constant fatigue. She's tried everything under the sun – cutting out caffeine, ditching sugar, hitting the gym religiously, and even diving into the latest health fads like mystical mushroom elixirs from Atlantis. But no matter what she does, Jane is perpetually worn out.

Enter her health coach, a guru of all things wellness. This coach has Jane sweating it out in the gym, munching on super foods, and sipping on the trendiest health potions. Yet, Jane's exhaustion persists.

Why? Because amidst all the workouts, diets, and potions, her coach overlooked a fundamental element:

hydration.

Yes, plain old water – the elixir of life, the first step to vibrant health.

For Healers, Coaches and Therapists, the Helpers Paradox is your water. Or more accurately, not acknowledging this paradox is like not having water all day, every day. It drains the energy from everything else you are trying to do. Including helping and being of service.

It may seem simple, but until you grasp its importance, it's like trying to run a marathon without a drop to drink.

The Helpers Paradox is like proper hydration. It may not be the only thing you need to address, but until you do, it might as well be.

The Helpers Paradox is the foundational step for Healers to be empowered to grow their healing practice and spiritually in their personal lives.

The usual approaches Healers and coaches take to grow their business often don’t work because they tend to only scratch the surface of the real problem. And they don’t identify the Helper’s Paradox in specific terms.

The Helpers Paradox states that “The more a person Needs to help, the less able they are to help.”

But instead of addressing that directly, people look up courses on things like “People pleasing” or “Over giving” or “Compassion Fatigue”. However The Helpers Paradox goes much deeper than surface patterns. It is a challenging concept that calls into question our values, our societies concepts on what a “Good Person” is, and so much more.

And I promise that there is great freedom on the other side of this Paradox.

Shifting out of the Need energy that this paradox sticks you in opens up a whole new world.

One where you can do your work from Joy, not Obligation.

What would it be like to get to live your life, create each day, not from a sense of obligation but from the Joy of doing, the joy of contributing and creating?

If you are exhausted from people pleasing, over giving and burnt out from being vulnerable so much of the time, addressing the Helpers Paradox is the solution.

I have spent years, and hundreds of hours with clients, helping them to identify and then dismantle The Helpers Paradox and other energetic blocks so they can have freedom.

I have a spiritual gift called Claire-Audience which I use to identify and clear specific limiting beliefs.

I help clients see exactly where they have been subconsciously staying safe so that they can shift from overwork to ease and fun as they be more of themselves in their business

I have delivered my signature belief clearing session with 500 people in 28 countries, and honed a direct, honest and “No-fluff” approach to help clients end self sabotage and confusion.

My Deeper purpose:

Is to help others heal their relationship with God, (The God of their understanding), so that they can build their life + business on a solid foundation of faith, self love and spiritual confidence.

What I am inviting you into

I invite you to join us at the “Helper’s Paradox” half day online intensive.

Join us for a transformative journey where we delve into three key areas to empower your healing practice and personal growth:

1. Free yourself for People Pleasing:

   1. Gain freedom from people-pleasing tendencies, leading to a greater sense of authenticity and self-expression.

2. Abundance:

   1. Experience a shift from obligation to joy, allowing you to engage in helping others without feeling burdened or guilty, AND grow a sustainable Healing Practice with more ease and magic

3. Find Ease:

   1. Release the responsibility for others' emotions and understand the Helper's Paradox to free yourself from anxiety, guilt, and shame. Gain insights that empower you to break free from cycles of over-giving, exhaustion, and burnout, allowing you to focus on your own growth, support others in a balanced way, and express your gifts authentically.

Here's what's in store for you:

• Discover the magical 4 word phrase that will free you from people pleasing (yes it’s magical, no it’s not always easy to use and it takes practice!)

• Understand how you are putting Holes in your own Gas Tank, and start plugging them with ease and joy during the workshop.

• Beat Procrastination as you learn the Spiritual Root of 99% of Procrastination and how to shift it

Specifically what you’ll get:

• The ability to balance giving and self care by developing competence over the Helper’s Paradox.

• Develop better Boundaries and reduce Peopel Pleasing by clearing the specific beliefs that keep you stuck in those patterns in the first place

• Access my PDF cheat sheet on the 8 Pillars of the Impostor Complex for actionable guidance, preventing procrastination and overwhelm.

• Enjoy a prerecorded meditation and energy healing practice for daily energetic alignment, empowering you to confidently share your voice and message with your audience.

Bonus: Sign up now and get my “8 Pillars of the Impostor Complex” cheat sheet., complete with 8 Energetic Processes and 8 practical Tools that you can use to show up consistently and joyfully in your business and life.

This will help you to stop getting slowed down by feeling inauthentic or out of alignment and just get your work done!

In a nutshell what you will …

Experience freedom from people-pleasing, find joy in helping others without guilt, and grow your healing practice with ease.

You will gain insights to overcome procrastination, understand the Helper's Paradox, develop better boundaries, and confidently express your authentic self.

Questions?

1. Where is it held? - Zoom

2. When? - Saturday June 1st , 10 am Eastern to 2 pm Eastern

3. How is the intensive delivered?

   1. The half day is separated into 4, one hour modules;

      1. The 8 Pillars of the Impostor Complex; Tips and tools.

      2. The spiritual truth about Procrastination

      3. Understanding the Helper’s Paradox: the root of people pleasing

      4. How to create natural energetic “boundaries” so that you don’t have to “Do” boundaries all the time

   2. In each module Wil will present the theme and give a specific tool to help clear the Impostor Complex. This will be 10 - 15 minutes.

   3. For the remainder of the hour, he will offer energy healing work for the whole group, or invite anyone who feels aligned to “Raise their hand” for some specific limiting belief clearing work. You will not be called on if you do not raise your hand. This is your time for live energy work!

4. Who

   1. This half day intensive is ideal for Healers growing a practice, Therapists and Coaches. Other helping professions are welcome as well and will see a lot of value.

5. Price

   1. There are 3 payment options, $117,$137,$157 See below for details.

Questions and Answers

1. “Can energy healing and limiting belief clearing really be done online like this? I thought I might have to be in person for that to work?”

   • I have found it very much can be done this way. Even some modalities that are very hands on, like Reiki, can be done at a distance. The style of limiting belief clearing and energy healing work that I practice is perfectly suited for distance work.

2. “Will I be completely healed of procrastination, hiding, playing small and people pleasing?”

   • The intention with this half day intensive is not to “Heal everything”. It is to start you off on a solid foundation. Similar to how a week at a health camp gets you powerfully started on your journey of physical health.

     1. Frankly, this is big work. It is rare for issues like people pleasing, and the Helpers Paradox to entirely shift in a half day. That wouldn’t be appropriate in most cases as well. If you did shift something that was so fundamental to the person you’ve been up till now, all of a sudden your family might not know who you are anymore, you “Changed” so fast they didn’t have time to keep up. This is a healthy, holistic approach.

     2. What you will get, that I believe is more powerful: You’ll have practices to continue the clearing work yourself, and an invitation to join our community every 2 weeks to continue to deepen this work

3. “I don’t know if i can last for 4 hours on zoom, can I leave to walk outside, use the bathroom? Will there be breaks?”

   • Yes, there will be a break for snacks and to stretch. And you are welcome to get up and do whatever you need to do when you feel the need.

   • On our first version of this each participant said the time flew by and they felt like they could keep going.

4. “It sounds like this might get pretty personal, do I have to share personally?”

   • You do not have to share personally. But I do find there is a huge benefit in doing so when you feel called to. You can listen in on everyone else’s shares and that is also very powerful.

5. “I’ve done a lot of healing classes, but not much changed in a concrete way after. Will there be concrete actions to take after this to grow my business?”

   • I hear you. This is the tricky balance in energy healing work! We are identifying the deeper patterns, the limiting beliefs, that have kept you stuck for ages. Just seeing one of those, and shifting it, can have a huge impact on your day to day approach to your life and business.

   • And, I’m a big fan of blending in practical work! So for each module you will have suggested homework to do so that you can practice this work, and see bigger physical shifts, in your business.

”As of my last session with Wil, something has released that I have carried for a long time. I was blocked and no matter what I did I could not release it. After our session, it has gone. The tightness, the limitation, has released!” - Stephanie

”I’m living more from my true self; expanding my life and visibility” Frances Goodall - EFT Trainer, Coach, Therapist, Speaker and Author, Co-Founder of The Women’s Wellness Circle

To Register: Pay from the heart.

When deciding on the pricing for the half day intensive, it’s up to you to feel into what works for you at this season of your life and business.

There are 3 price options and you get the same half day workshop for each price.

$117 - This is the more accessible price if you deeply want to come, but money is tight.

$137 - This is the comfortable price. I can run this half day intensive comfortably for my life and business with 5 people at this price so it works for my businesses needs.

$157 - This is the expansion price. This allows me to invest a bit in my business comfortably, hire part time staff, etc.

Each of these prices will change each time I offer this half day intensive. This is what my heart told me to do for this current offer only.

Pick your price from the options below.

“Wil Carlos is masterful at facilitating the release of hidden beliefs that keep you playing small. If you are ready to live your best life, then Wil is the person to work with.” - Tomi Bryan, Coach, Consultant & Author of "What’s Your Superpower?”